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		<title>Comment on Memorial Day question: any beloved military heroes who have passed on that you&#8217;d like to mention? by william m</title>
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		<dc:creator>william m</dc:creator>
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		<description>My Dad A Veteran of the Air Force in WWII AND DROVE THE PLANES WITH THE BOMBS OVER THEIR He has been in Heaven for 24 Years thanks for the memories</description>
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		<title>Comment on Memorial Day question: any beloved military heroes who have passed on that you&#8217;d like to mention? by makwa1963</title>
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		<dc:creator>makwa1963</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 10:59:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My Uncle Willy on my Mom&#039;s side of the family. He gave everything to serve and protect. A very special Uncle and brother.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My Uncle Willy on my Mom&#8217;s side of the family. He gave everything to serve and protect. A very special Uncle and brother.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Memorial Day question: any beloved military heroes who have passed on that you&#8217;d like to mention? by Roadrunner58-79</title>
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		<dc:creator>Roadrunner58-79</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 10:22:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>1 friend lost in Vietnam in 1969, name was Blaine Rollins!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1 friend lost in Vietnam in 1969, name was Blaine Rollins!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Is a bullet proof vest part of US military combat attire? by Cinnabon hon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cinnabon hon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 10:15:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Its for full battle rattle.
Whatever happened to the Gas mask no one ever wears them anymore.</description>
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Whatever happened to the Gas mask no one ever wears them anymore.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Memorial Day question: any beloved military heroes who have passed on that you&#8217;d like to mention? by hello world</title>
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		<dc:creator>hello world</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 10:08:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The one person who always springs to mind when I see a question like this (and I have seen a couple of similar questions since I joined Y!A over 2 years ago) is my maternal grandfather....whom I never knew. He served in France and Belgium towards the end of World War 1. I believe my mother has copies of many of his letters to his parents from around that time....and she has visited some of the battle fields where her father was.

As I said....I never knew my grandfather....he passed away in 1968....some eight and a half years before I was born. But I always seem to think of him around Armistice Day/Veterans Day (November 11th)....and I suppose Memorial Day is another good time to keep him in mind.....as he was an American. I suppose the reason why he is more in my thoughts in November is that I have always lived in England (my father is English)....and we do not observe Memorial Day at this time of year in this country....but we do have Remembrance Sunday, on the nearest Sunday to November 11th.

Great question!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The one person who always springs to mind when I see a question like this (and I have seen a couple of similar questions since I joined Y!A over 2 years ago) is my maternal grandfather&#8230;.whom I never knew. He served in France and Belgium towards the end of World War 1. I believe my mother has copies of many of his letters to his parents from around that time&#8230;.and she has visited some of the battle fields where her father was.</p>
<p>As I said&#8230;.I never knew my grandfather&#8230;.he passed away in 1968&#8230;.some eight and a half years before I was born. But I always seem to think of him around Armistice Day/Veterans Day (November 11th)&#8230;.and I suppose Memorial Day is another good time to keep him in mind&#8230;..as he was an American. I suppose the reason why he is more in my thoughts in November is that I have always lived in England (my father is English)&#8230;.and we do not observe Memorial Day at this time of year in this country&#8230;.but we do have Remembrance Sunday, on the nearest Sunday to November 11th.</p>
<p>Great question!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Is a bullet proof vest part of US military combat attire? by samuraiwarrior_98</title>
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		<dc:creator>samuraiwarrior_98</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 09:42:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Flack vests are issued when you are deploying to an area that has combat operations along with other things that you normally would not have or use otherwise.  They are quite expensive and outfitting everyone with one and issuing them to them would be a huge cost in defense dollars.  Not only that but such equipment becomes more difficult to care for, keep, and store as well as account for so some equipment is what they refer to as issuable when there is a need.

Some people whose jobs though carry world wide duty on a short notice basis have and keep their deployment bags ready and stored on base and check it out when they are being tasked to go somewhere on short notice.  Those bags are routinely inventoried and checked and maintained by them and others whose job it is to do that.  My job required me to have four such bags of gear and equipment stored and the back of my little car was pretty cramped when I would have to pick them up and transport them over to where the crew bus was picking us up at some times.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Flack vests are issued when you are deploying to an area that has combat operations along with other things that you normally would not have or use otherwise.  They are quite expensive and outfitting everyone with one and issuing them to them would be a huge cost in defense dollars.  Not only that but such equipment becomes more difficult to care for, keep, and store as well as account for so some equipment is what they refer to as issuable when there is a need.</p>
<p>Some people whose jobs though carry world wide duty on a short notice basis have and keep their deployment bags ready and stored on base and check it out when they are being tasked to go somewhere on short notice.  Those bags are routinely inventoried and checked and maintained by them and others whose job it is to do that.  My job required me to have four such bags of gear and equipment stored and the back of my little car was pretty cramped when I would have to pick them up and transport them over to where the crew bus was picking us up at some times.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Memorial Day question: any beloved military heroes who have passed on that you&#8217;d like to mention? by KENSETH-LAMBERT</title>
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		<dc:creator>KENSETH-LAMBERT</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 09:31:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Two of my uncles served in Vietnam and Korea.Passed on from natural causes. I would also like to recognize 4265 fallen American heroes since the occupation of Iraq. As well as the 318 coalition troops.The 686 americans in Afghanistan as well as the contractors and journalists who lost their lives.My heart goes out to all who served including the 1000,000 wounded in these wars.
 I salute them all and their loved ones.in all of our wars I served in the USAF during peace time.Lucky me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Two of my uncles served in Vietnam and Korea.Passed on from natural causes. I would also like to recognize 4265 fallen American heroes since the occupation of Iraq. As well as the 318 coalition troops.The 686 americans in Afghanistan as well as the contractors and journalists who lost their lives.My heart goes out to all who served including the 1000,000 wounded in these wars.<br />
 I salute them all and their loved ones.in all of our wars I served in the USAF during peace time.Lucky me.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Memorial Day question: any beloved military heroes who have passed on that you&#8217;d like to mention? by Moon :)</title>
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		<dc:creator>Moon :)</dc:creator>
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		<description>No, but I wanted to send a big hug to you and to all veterans and their families.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No, but I wanted to send a big hug to you and to all veterans and their families.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Is a bullet proof vest part of US military combat attire? by Der Führer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Der Führer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 09:26:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nooo, nooo, nooo... We would never give such life sustaining things to our troops.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nooo, nooo, nooo&#8230; We would never give such life sustaining things to our troops.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Memorial Day question: any beloved military heroes who have passed on that you&#8217;d like to mention? by ♡Redhead♡</title>
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		<dc:creator>♡Redhead♡</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 08:57:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>they haven&#039;t passed but i wanna mention two friends that are overseas right now fighting: Jordan (Marines) and Michael (Air Force). i have many friends in the military and my boyfriend is too</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>they haven&#8217;t passed but i wanna mention two friends that are overseas right now fighting: Jordan (Marines) and Michael (Air Force). i have many friends in the military and my boyfriend is too</p>
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		<title>Comment on Is a bullet proof vest part of US military combat attire? by alexander m</title>
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		<dc:creator>alexander m</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 08:35:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No such thing as a bullet proof best, but body armor is a part of our combat kit. I don&#039;t know what you think body armor looks like, but it&#039;s the same pattern as our uniforms</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No such thing as a bullet proof best, but body armor is a part of our combat kit. I don&#8217;t know what you think body armor looks like, but it&#8217;s the same pattern as our uniforms</p>
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		<title>Comment on Memorial Day question: any beloved military heroes who have passed on that you&#8217;d like to mention? by crazymazie</title>
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		<dc:creator>crazymazie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 08:33:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dont know any, but I hear ya, your dad still is a hero..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dont know any, but I hear ya, your dad still is a hero..</p>
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		<title>Comment on Memorial Day question: any beloved military heroes who have passed on that you&#8217;d like to mention? by Gypsy B</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gypsy B</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 08:06:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My father also.  He was Navy WWII &amp; I still miss him more than imaginable.  Like your father is your hero, my dad is mine.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My father also.  He was Navy WWII &#038; I still miss him more than imaginable.  Like your father is your hero, my dad is mine.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Is a bullet proof vest part of US military combat attire? by The Ghost of Craiggers</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Ghost of Craiggers</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 07:52:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes and no.

Servicemembers in combat areas wear protective vests which have a kevlar weave in them around their torso. It does not, however, stop bullets. It&#039;s main function is to stop shrapnel and dissipate impact to lessen potential internal injuries. If you are deployed outside the lines overseas you are also issued SAPI plates (Small Arms Protective Inserts) which are a very thick, very heavy plate that slide into slots on the front and back of the vest. These plates protect against a FEW types of aummunition, but are generally useless after they have been struck once, so they&#039;re better than nothing.

Servicemembers also wear kevlar helmets, which CAN stop a bullet, depending on the type of round that hits it and the angle it hits it at, but it&#039;s not a guarantee.

Bulletproof vests aren&#039;t like what you see in movies and video games, in actuality, there is NO material that will stop all types of small arms fire repeatedly that is anywhere near reasonable for a combat troop to wear. There is a vest called a &#039;dragonskin&#039; that is very effective, but I couldn&#039;t tell you much more about it.

All together, just that gear weighs between 40 and 60 lbs.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes and no.</p>
<p>Servicemembers in combat areas wear protective vests which have a kevlar weave in them around their torso. It does not, however, stop bullets. It&#8217;s main function is to stop shrapnel and dissipate impact to lessen potential internal injuries. If you are deployed outside the lines overseas you are also issued SAPI plates (Small Arms Protective Inserts) which are a very thick, very heavy plate that slide into slots on the front and back of the vest. These plates protect against a FEW types of aummunition, but are generally useless after they have been struck once, so they&#8217;re better than nothing.</p>
<p>Servicemembers also wear kevlar helmets, which CAN stop a bullet, depending on the type of round that hits it and the angle it hits it at, but it&#8217;s not a guarantee.</p>
<p>Bulletproof vests aren&#8217;t like what you see in movies and video games, in actuality, there is NO material that will stop all types of small arms fire repeatedly that is anywhere near reasonable for a combat troop to wear. There is a vest called a &#8216;dragonskin&#8217; that is very effective, but I couldn&#8217;t tell you much more about it.</p>
<p>All together, just that gear weighs between 40 and 60 lbs.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Is a bullet proof vest part of US military combat attire? by J</title>
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		<dc:creator>J</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 07:37:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You can&#039;t see it because it doesn&#039;t look like a vest you would see on, let&#039;s say, a cop show.  They wear body armor (Kevlar) in a cammo vest (tho it&#039;s not called cammo anymore -- i think they&#039;re called ACUs) and combined with the uniform it&#039;s actually difficult to see.  Be warned; it&#039;s ~50 lbs. and hot as balls (my husband&#039;s words, not mine).  So be prepared to be hauling around a lot of heavy crap in intense heat if you get deployed to the Middle East.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You can&#8217;t see it because it doesn&#8217;t look like a vest you would see on, let&#8217;s say, a cop show.  They wear body armor (Kevlar) in a cammo vest (tho it&#8217;s not called cammo anymore &#8212; i think they&#8217;re called ACUs) and combined with the uniform it&#8217;s actually difficult to see.  Be warned; it&#8217;s ~50 lbs. and hot as balls (my husband&#8217;s words, not mine).  So be prepared to be hauling around a lot of heavy crap in intense heat if you get deployed to the Middle East.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Memorial Day question: any beloved military heroes who have passed on that you&#8217;d like to mention? by jims mom</title>
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		<dc:creator>jims mom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 07:15:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i lost an uncle to viet nam war</description>
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		<title>Comment on Memorial Day question: any beloved military heroes who have passed on that you&#8217;d like to mention? by Tyler D</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tyler D</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 07:10:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow... your dad is a hero. I would like to mention him. I&#039;m a first generation American, so I don&#039;t really have any family that has served.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow&#8230; your dad is a hero. I would like to mention him. I&#8217;m a first generation American, so I don&#8217;t really have any family that has served.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Is a bullet proof vest part of US military combat attire? by Teja</title>
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		<dc:creator>Teja</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 07:00:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>no but a thick steel plate is. there is also a bullet proof helmet made out of kevlar</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>no but a thick steel plate is. there is also a bullet proof helmet made out of kevlar</p>
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		<title>Comment on Memorial Day question: any beloved military heroes who have passed on that you&#8217;d like to mention? by Kan Pitter (Panther Maniac!)</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kan Pitter (Panther Maniac!)</dc:creator>
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		<description>My grandfather.

Fought in WW2. Died of cancer in 1993.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My grandfather.</p>
<p>Fought in WW2. Died of cancer in 1993.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How do you survive a military deployment as a SPOUSE.? by Mrsjvb</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mrsjvb</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 09:04:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>by not putting  my life on hold..meaning I never sat by the phone 24/7 waiting for it to ring.  I left, went shopping, got out of the house.  if I missed a call, oh well.  There&#039;s always next time.  I did stiff for ME that I never would have been able to do if he were home.. chick flicks, eat ice cream for breakfast, that sort of thing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>by not putting  my life on hold..meaning I never sat by the phone 24/7 waiting for it to ring.  I left, went shopping, got out of the house.  if I missed a call, oh well.  There&#8217;s always next time.  I did stiff for ME that I never would have been able to do if he were home.. chick flicks, eat ice cream for breakfast, that sort of thing.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How do you survive a military deployment as a SPOUSE.? by Heather D</title>
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		<dc:creator>Heather D</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 08:04:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Surviving a deployment is hard. We were stationed in germany last year. A month after I got there my husband was sent to Iraq. And oh yeah, I was three months pregnant! I had a two year old to take care of and over 6000 lbs in household goods to unpack, so I was busy. Thats the key, staying busy. If you are away from home like I was find a couple really good friends. Remember everyone around you is in the same boat you are!! What base are you at? Some units have really good FRGs and others don&#039;t. Mine was awsome! We are currantly at Ft. Bragg I haven&#039;t heard good things about 101st&#039;s Frg. Anyway...give yours a try. Everyone has a differnt experience. The first couple months and the last couple months are the hardest! At first you are trying to get into a routine and get used to life without him. And at the end your just waiting for him to come home! Let me worn you that that is so hard!! You will be getting so much info, wrong dates and drama!!  Try not to listen to base gossip...someone always thinks that they know everything about the deployment and when the guys will be coming home. It only gets your hopes up and 9 times out of 10 is not true!! Depending on your personality watching the news might help or might hurt you. That is a decision you have to make. For me knowing what was going on gave me peace of mind...I watched alot of news and was a freqent visitor of likeleak.com. another thing is you have to stay optimistic, yet prepare yourself for the worst. While your husband is deployed everytime you have an unexpected visitor, espeically late at night your heart will drop everytime the doorbell rings! Take comfot inknowing that hunfrends of thousands of soldiers have made it there and make...many several times!! Pray for your husband and his unit an for wisdom for his comand. And like I said before, get another really good military wife and a friend!! Good luck..It will get better I promise! Stay busy...maybe do a project for your husband...Christmas is coming up...I sent my husband a box called the 25 days of christamas. I wrapped 25 gifts one for him to open everyday to remind him of christmas at home...fake snow, a christmas cd, hot chococlate, a pine air freshner. Yankee candles has those airfreshers too, they have a few candles that smell like christmas. We also made a love chain, ya know with construction paper like when you were in elementary school. Everyday we wrote our thoughts or what we did and had it going around the house for him to read when he came home.  Another thing if you have kids you might save some of their school stuff from the holidays and have a  holiday corner..I ha d friend that had a corner with a little christmas tree and school work of the kids and a holloween bucket or mask or a ester bastek..stuff like that. So when her husband come home he was still &quot;apart&quot; of the last year. WEll I hope some of this helps you out. Good luck!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Surviving a deployment is hard. We were stationed in germany last year. A month after I got there my husband was sent to Iraq. And oh yeah, I was three months pregnant! I had a two year old to take care of and over 6000 lbs in household goods to unpack, so I was busy. Thats the key, staying busy. If you are away from home like I was find a couple really good friends. Remember everyone around you is in the same boat you are!! What base are you at? Some units have really good FRGs and others don&#8217;t. Mine was awsome! We are currantly at Ft. Bragg I haven&#8217;t heard good things about 101st&#8217;s Frg. Anyway&#8230;give yours a try. Everyone has a differnt experience. The first couple months and the last couple months are the hardest! At first you are trying to get into a routine and get used to life without him. And at the end your just waiting for him to come home! Let me worn you that that is so hard!! You will be getting so much info, wrong dates and drama!!  Try not to listen to base gossip&#8230;someone always thinks that they know everything about the deployment and when the guys will be coming home. It only gets your hopes up and 9 times out of 10 is not true!! Depending on your personality watching the news might help or might hurt you. That is a decision you have to make. For me knowing what was going on gave me peace of mind&#8230;I watched alot of news and was a freqent visitor of likeleak.com. another thing is you have to stay optimistic, yet prepare yourself for the worst. While your husband is deployed everytime you have an unexpected visitor, espeically late at night your heart will drop everytime the doorbell rings! Take comfot inknowing that hunfrends of thousands of soldiers have made it there and make&#8230;many several times!! Pray for your husband and his unit an for wisdom for his comand. And like I said before, get another really good military wife and a friend!! Good luck..It will get better I promise! Stay busy&#8230;maybe do a project for your husband&#8230;Christmas is coming up&#8230;I sent my husband a box called the 25 days of christamas. I wrapped 25 gifts one for him to open everyday to remind him of christmas at home&#8230;fake snow, a christmas cd, hot chococlate, a pine air freshner. Yankee candles has those airfreshers too, they have a few candles that smell like christmas. We also made a love chain, ya know with construction paper like when you were in elementary school. Everyday we wrote our thoughts or what we did and had it going around the house for him to read when he came home.  Another thing if you have kids you might save some of their school stuff from the holidays and have a  holiday corner..I ha d friend that had a corner with a little christmas tree and school work of the kids and a holloween bucket or mask or a ester bastek..stuff like that. So when her husband come home he was still &#8220;apart&#8221; of the last year. WEll I hope some of this helps you out. Good luck!</p>
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		<title>Comment on How do you survive a military deployment as a SPOUSE.? by Erudite</title>
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		<dc:creator>Erudite</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 07:51:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Do what the rest of the spouses do. Go to the bars and hang out. Dance. Play darts. Then write letters to your hubby telling him you miss him. Tell him your bored. Then go back to the bars. (Note: The military bar on base is  the best to hang out)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do what the rest of the spouses do. Go to the bars and hang out. Dance. Play darts. Then write letters to your hubby telling him you miss him. Tell him your bored. Then go back to the bars. (Note: The military bar on base is  the best to hang out)</p>
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		<title>Comment on How do you survive a military deployment as a SPOUSE.? by lisab</title>
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		<dc:creator>lisab</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 07:46:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Write letters, go to college, volunteer, find ways to keep your mind occupied and it helps the time go faster. 
You can also check out www.militaryonesource.com and your local ACS for support groups.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Write letters, go to college, volunteer, find ways to keep your mind occupied and it helps the time go faster.<br />
You can also check out <a href="http://www.militaryonesource.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.militaryonesource.com</a> and your local ACS for support groups.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How do you survive a military deployment as a SPOUSE.? by samanthababy420</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 07:07:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>this is how i survived when i was with my army boyfriend..
stay busy no matter what so you can keep your mind off him ..
write letters to tell him that you love them and so you can see how they are doing..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>this is how i survived when i was with my army boyfriend..<br />
stay busy no matter what so you can keep your mind off him ..<br />
write letters to tell him that you love them and so you can see how they are doing..</p>
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		<title>Comment on How do you survive a military deployment as a SPOUSE.? by foxhound</title>
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		<dc:creator>foxhound</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 06:55:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Survival..... it is not yours but his. HE will be gone from all that is familiar. You, the bed, food, TV and many things. You will have friends or family about and he will not. Start with that thought.

I am sure the military wives will fill you in on the rest.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Survival&#8230;.. it is not yours but his. HE will be gone from all that is familiar. You, the bed, food, TV and many things. You will have friends or family about and he will not. Start with that thought.</p>
<p>I am sure the military wives will fill you in on the rest.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How do you survive a military deployment as a SPOUSE.? by justin h</title>
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		<dc:creator>justin h</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 06:22:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>usually it includes alcohol and affairs</description>
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		<title>Comment on How do you survive a military deployment as a SPOUSE.? by Bellamerica</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bellamerica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 05:50:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hmm. Get a life.

I mean is your spouse the only thing you live for? Get a job, get a vibrator, join a community group, read a book, exercise.

I have an even better idea. Get pregnant like the majority of them do, then you can focus on that while he&#039;s gone, and have the child alone in the hospital while he&#039;s dodging bullets overseas.


And there is nothing wrong with an affair either, mind you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hmm. Get a life.</p>
<p>I mean is your spouse the only thing you live for? Get a job, get a vibrator, join a community group, read a book, exercise.</p>
<p>I have an even better idea. Get pregnant like the majority of them do, then you can focus on that while he&#8217;s gone, and have the child alone in the hospital while he&#8217;s dodging bullets overseas.</p>
<p>And there is nothing wrong with an affair either, mind you.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Do you think women can go into military combat? by thewedge226</title>
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		<dc:creator>thewedge226</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Aug 2010 09:51:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I really hate this question, its such a hotly debated one. This was one of the topics we had to debate in Airmen Leadership School. I personally don&#039;t believe that women should be on the front line. I believe in equal rights but I also believe that there are some situations the we don&#039;t need to put our women in. Nothing against their ability, but I believe that it becomes a distraction for there male counterparts. The men will be instinctively driven to defend the women. Also most women are not physically strong enough to do some of the things required in combat ie. drag a fallen soldier to safety. The largest reason I don&#039;t believe that they should be allowed in the front line of combat is because when men are captured they are usually beaten but with women you would also have to worry about rape.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really hate this question, its such a hotly debated one. This was one of the topics we had to debate in Airmen Leadership School. I personally don&#8217;t believe that women should be on the front line. I believe in equal rights but I also believe that there are some situations the we don&#8217;t need to put our women in. Nothing against their ability, but I believe that it becomes a distraction for there male counterparts. The men will be instinctively driven to defend the women. Also most women are not physically strong enough to do some of the things required in combat ie. drag a fallen soldier to safety. The largest reason I don&#8217;t believe that they should be allowed in the front line of combat is because when men are captured they are usually beaten but with women you would also have to worry about rape.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Do you think women can go into military combat? by man_marathon</title>
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		<dc:creator>man_marathon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Aug 2010 09:18:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i see women back from iraq now in ptsd,they are ruined mentally</description>
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		<title>Comment on Do you think women can go into military combat? by uhgrant100</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Aug 2010 08:47:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>(I am assuming you are talking about the US Military)

Women do go into combat already.  

They are just not allowed to be infantry or armor.  But they are MPs, Civil Affairs, Truck Drivers, Medics, Translators, even in Field Artillery and Combat Engineers. 

Women may not be the ones tasked to break in doors, (except for MPs maybe) but they do fight alongside the infantry.

There are several reasons why they are not allowed in Infantry right now, and it basically comes down to two things:

1) Physical capability.  Infantry is almost all upper body in one way or another.  The vast majority of women are not built for that.  In particular, the female hip is a big problem.  The most common injury for female basic trainees in regular basic training it stress fractures in the hip or femoral head.  This is caused by road marching with heavy weight.  In basic training that weight is limited to 30lbs or 1/3 of thier body weight (whichever is lower.)  Even with this light load over 10-15km, females develop hip fractures.  10-15km is considered only a medium distance in the military.

A femoral hip fracture or a hip fracture can seriouly impact a womans ability to have children in the future and can seriously affect other activities in general... walking and running for example.... for the rest of their lives.

For infantry, you carry more then 30lbs on your person, not even counting what is in your back pack.  

For two years I was Basic Training Company commander.
In the future, as things get lighter, it may be possible as things get lighter.  As things are now, its not possible.

2) The second reason is money.  Things usually come down to budgets.  Canada experimented with women in combat arms in the 1980s.  Out of 80 trainees, only 2 passed.  You pay for 80, you get 2.  The reason why, sure a female athelete can do this job, but how much of the military aged female population is a female athelete?

    It could be possible to slowly train females up to a standard of a female athelete, but again, that takes time and money.  Expecially if there was a draft situation, you dont have time to do that.

I was a basic training company commander for two years.  Out of my female trainees, 25% could not meet or were injured doing regular basic training standards.  Only about 10% could score higher then the low end males on the PT test using an even scale.  (Females and Males used different score charts normally, my comparision is using the male chart). 

Over all, women do serve in combat.  They may not be the ones breaking down the door, but they are often the one on the .50cal machine gun covering the team that is breaking down the door.  They do a fine job in the field and have a great impact on the war effort.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>(I am assuming you are talking about the US Military)</p>
<p>Women do go into combat already.  </p>
<p>They are just not allowed to be infantry or armor.  But they are MPs, Civil Affairs, Truck Drivers, Medics, Translators, even in Field Artillery and Combat Engineers. </p>
<p>Women may not be the ones tasked to break in doors, (except for MPs maybe) but they do fight alongside the infantry.</p>
<p>There are several reasons why they are not allowed in Infantry right now, and it basically comes down to two things:</p>
<p>1) Physical capability.  Infantry is almost all upper body in one way or another.  The vast majority of women are not built for that.  In particular, the female hip is a big problem.  The most common injury for female basic trainees in regular basic training it stress fractures in the hip or femoral head.  This is caused by road marching with heavy weight.  In basic training that weight is limited to 30lbs or 1/3 of thier body weight (whichever is lower.)  Even with this light load over 10-15km, females develop hip fractures.  10-15km is considered only a medium distance in the military.</p>
<p>A femoral hip fracture or a hip fracture can seriouly impact a womans ability to have children in the future and can seriously affect other activities in general&#8230; walking and running for example&#8230;. for the rest of their lives.</p>
<p>For infantry, you carry more then 30lbs on your person, not even counting what is in your back pack.  </p>
<p>For two years I was Basic Training Company commander.<br />
In the future, as things get lighter, it may be possible as things get lighter.  As things are now, its not possible.</p>
<p>2) The second reason is money.  Things usually come down to budgets.  Canada experimented with women in combat arms in the 1980s.  Out of 80 trainees, only 2 passed.  You pay for 80, you get 2.  The reason why, sure a female athelete can do this job, but how much of the military aged female population is a female athelete?</p>
<p>    It could be possible to slowly train females up to a standard of a female athelete, but again, that takes time and money.  Expecially if there was a draft situation, you dont have time to do that.</p>
<p>I was a basic training company commander for two years.  Out of my female trainees, 25% could not meet or were injured doing regular basic training standards.  Only about 10% could score higher then the low end males on the PT test using an even scale.  (Females and Males used different score charts normally, my comparision is using the male chart). </p>
<p>Over all, women do serve in combat.  They may not be the ones breaking down the door, but they are often the one on the .50cal machine gun covering the team that is breaking down the door.  They do a fine job in the field and have a great impact on the war effort.</p>
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